* cmake: split extension

Into suffix and debug postfix. Pybind11 is currently treating both as
suffix, which is problematic when something else defines the
DEBUG_POSTFIX because they will be concatenated.

pybind11_extension sets SUFFIX to _d.something and if DEBUG_POSTFIX is
set to _d.

    _d + _d.something = _d_d.something

The issue has been reported at:

https://github.com/pybind/pybind11/issues/4699

* style: pre-commit fixes

* fix(cmake): support postfix for old FindPythonInterp mode too

Signed-off-by: Henry Schreiner <henryschreineriii@gmail.com>

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