* Expand string_view support to str, bytes, memoryview

1. Allows constructing a str or bytes implicitly from a string_view;
   this is essentially a small shortcut allowing a caller to write
   `py::bytes{sv}` rather than `py::bytes{sv.data(), sv.size()}`.

2. Allows implicit conversion *to* string_view from py::bytes -- this
   saves a fair bit more as currently there is no simple way to get such
   a view of the bytes without copying it (or resorting to Python API
   calls).

   (This is not done for `str` because when the str contains unicode we
   have to allocate to a temporary and so there might not be some string
   data we can properly view without owning.)

3. Allows `memoryview::from_memory` to accept a string_view.  As with
   the other from_memory calls, it's entirely your responsibility to
   keep it alive.

This also required moving the string_view availability detection into
detail/common.h because this PR needs it in pytypes.h, which is higher
up the include chain than cast.h where it was being detected currently.

* Move string_view include to pytypes.h

* CI-testing a fix for the "ambiguous conversion" issue.

This change is known to fix the `tensorflow::tstring` issue reported under https://github.com/pybind/pybind11/pull/3521#issuecomment-985100965

TODO: Minimal reproducer for the `tensorflow::tstring` issue.

* Make clang-tidy happy (hopefully).

* Adding minimal reproducer for the `tensorflow::tstring` issue.

Error without the enable_if trick:

```
/usr/local/google/home/rwgk/forked/pybind11/tests/test_builtin_casters.cpp:169:16: error: ambiguous conversion for functional-style cast from 'TypeWithBothOperatorStringAndStringView' to 'py::bytes'
        return py::bytes(TypeWithBothOperatorStringAndStringView());
               ^~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
/usr/local/google/home/rwgk/forked/pybind11/include/pybind11/detail/../pytypes.h:1174:5: note: candidate constructor
    bytes(const std::string &s) : bytes(s.data(), s.size()) { }
    ^
/usr/local/google/home/rwgk/forked/pybind11/include/pybind11/detail/../pytypes.h:1191:5: note: candidate constructor
    bytes(std::string_view s) : bytes(s.data(), s.size()) { }
    ^
```

* Adding missing NOLINTNEXTLINE

* Also apply ambiguous conversion workaround to str()

Co-authored-by: Ralf W. Grosse-Kunstleve <rwgk@google.com>