Keyword arguments and generalized unpacking for C++ API

With this change arg_t is no longer a template, but it must remain so
for backward compatibility. Thus, a non-template arg_v is introduced,
while a dummy template alias arg_t is there to keep old code from
breaking. This can be remove in the next major release.

The implementation of arg_v also needed to be placed a little earlier in
the headers because it's not a template any more and unpacking_collector
needs more than a forward declaration.

MSVC fails to compile if the constructor is defined out-of-line.
The error states that it cannot deduce the type of the default template
parameter which is used for SFINAE.

The variadic handle::operator() offers the same functionality as well
as mixed positional, keyword, * and ** arguments. The tests are also
superseded by the ones in `test_callbacks`.

Replicates Python API including keyword arguments.

A Python function can be called with the syntax:
```python
foo(a1, a2, *args, ka=1, kb=2, **kwargs)
```
This commit adds support for the equivalent syntax in C++:
```c++
foo(a1, a2, *args, "ka"_a=1, "kb"_a=2, **kwargs)
```

In addition, generalized unpacking is implemented, as per PEP 448,
which allows calls with multiple * and ** unpacking:
```python
bar(*args1, 99, *args2, 101, **kwargs1, kz=200, **kwargs2)
```
and
```c++
bar(*args1, 99, *args2, 101, **kwargs1, "kz"_a=200, **kwargs2)
```

Adding bind_map. Adding key_error exception.

enum serialization support (fixes #380)

Make unique_ptr's with non-default deleters work

Currently pybind11 only supports std::unique_ptr<T> holders by default
(other holders can, of course, be declared using the macro).  PR #368
added a `py::nodelete` that is intended to be used as:

    py::class_<Type, std::unique_ptr<Type, py::nodelete>> c("Type");

but this doesn't work out of the box.  (You could add an explicit
holder type declaration, but this doesn't appear to have been the
intention of the commit).

This commit fixes it by generalizing the unique_ptr type_caster to take
both the type and deleter as template arguments, so that *any*
unique_ptr instances are now automatically handled by pybind.  It also
adds a test to test_smart_ptr, testing both that py::nodelete (now)
works, and that the object is indeed not deleted as intended.

Buffer info improvements

Make test initialization self-registering

Adding or removing tests is a little bit cumbersome currently: the test
needs to be added to CMakeLists.txt, the init function needs to be
predeclared in pybind11_tests.cpp, then called in the plugin
initialization.  While this isn't a big deal for tests that are being
committed, it's more of a hassle when working on some new feature or
test code for which I temporarily only care about building and linking
the test being worked on rather than the entire test suite.

This commit changes tests to self-register their initialization by
having each test initialize a local object (which stores the
initialization function in a static variable).  This makes changing the
set of tests being build easy: one only needs to add or comment out
test names in tests/CMakeLists.txt.

A couple other minor changes that go along with this:

- test_eigen.cpp is now included in the test list, then removed if eigen
  isn't available.  This lets you disable the eigen tests by commenting
  it out, just like all the other tests, but keeps the build working
  without eigen eigen isn't available.  (Also, if it's commented out, we
  don't even bother looking for and reporting the building with/without
  eigen status message).

- pytest is now invoked with all the built test names (with .cpp changed
  to .py) so that it doesn't try to run tests that weren't built.

Fix check-style exit status and improve failure messages

Fix template trampoline overload lookup failure

This makes the output considerably easier to use: it now highlights (in
red) matched tabs (instead of just listing the filenames), and adds
line numbers to both the tabs check and the space-less if check outputs.

Problem
=======

The template trampoline pattern documented in PR #322 has a problem with
virtual method overloads in intermediate classes in the inheritance
chain between the trampoline class and the base class.

For example, consider the following inheritance structure, where `B` is
the actual class, `PyB<B>` is the trampoline class, and `PyA<B>` is an
intermediate class adding A's methods into the trampoline:

    PyB<B> -> PyA<B> -> B -> A

Suppose PyA<B> has a method `some_method()` with a PYBIND11_OVERLOAD in
it to overload the virtual `A::some_method()`.  If a Python class `C` is
defined that inherits from the pybind11-registered `B` and tries to
provide an overriding `some_method()`, the PYBIND11_OVERLOADs declared
in PyA<B> fails to find this overloaded method, and thus never invoke it
(or, if pure virtual and not overridden in PyB<B>, raises an exception).

This happens because the base (internal) `PYBIND11_OVERLOAD_INT` macro
simply calls `get_overload(this, name)`; `get_overload()` then uses the
inferred type of `this` to do a type lookup in `registered_types_cpp`.
This is where it fails: `this` will be a `PyA<B> *`, but `PyA<B>` is
neither the base type (`B`) nor the trampoline type (`PyB<B>`).  As a
result, the overload fails and we get a failed overload lookup.

The fix
=======

The fix is relatively simple: we can cast `this` passed to
`get_overload()` to a `const B *`, which lets get_overload look up the
correct class.  Since trampoline classes should be derived from `B`
classes anyway, this cast should be perfectly safe.

This does require adding the class name as an argument to the
PYBIND11_OVERLOAD_INT macro, but leaves the public macro signatures
unchanged.

The check-style exit status wasn't being propagated properly because
the loops were running in a subshell (and so the change the the
`errors` variable wasn't in the active command shell).  This fixes it
by running the greps in subshells and the loops in the main shell.

This also avoids the if(/for(/while( style check on
tests/CMakeLists.txt, since it *does* have if() statements with no space
that are producing error messages, but that is (acceptable) CMake style.

Doc fix for OVERLOAD*_NAME macros

The documentation says the string-valued python function name goes
after the C++ function, but it actually goes before it.

Check for style issues during docs build