Switching deprecated Thread Local Storage (TLS) usage in Python 3.7 to Thread Specific Storage (TSS) (#1454)

* Switching deprecated Thread Local Storage (TLS) usage in Python 3.7 to Thread Specific Storage (TSS)

* Changing Python version from 3.6 to 3.7 for Travis CI, to match brew's version of Python 3

* Introducing PYBIND11_ macros to switch between TLS and TSS API

* Silence GCC8's -Wcast-function-type.

See https://bugs.python.org/issue33012 and PRs linked therein.

It is useful not only to remember the python libs and includes but
also the interpreter version in cache.

If users call pybind11 throught `add_subdirectories` they will
otherwise have no access to the selected interpreter version.
The interpreter version is useful for downstream projects, e.g.
to select default `lib/pythonX.Y/site-packages/` install paths.

Add missing python3 distutils on Debian "buster".

If an exception is thrown during module initialization, the
error_already_set destructor will try to call `get_internals()` *after*
setting Python's error indicator, resulting in a `SystemError: ...
returned with an error set`.

Fix that by temporarily stashing away the error indicator in the
destructor.

Found via `codespell`

Fixes #1401

Fix a segfault when creating a 0-dimension, c-strides array.

As reported in #1349, clang before 3.5 can segfault on a function-local
variable referenced inside a lambda.  This moves the function-local
static into a separate function that the lambda can invoke to avoid the
issue.

Fixes #1349

This fixes the test code on big-endian architectures: the array support
(PR #832) had hard-coded the little-endian '<' but we need to use '>' on
big-endian architectures.

Current MSVC generates totally bizarre errors:

    error C2884: 'pybind11::detail::_': introduced by using-declaration
    conflicts with local function 'pybind11::detail::_'

which makes no sense (since the supposed "conflict" is the function
itself).  Work around it by `using namespace detail;` instead (which
also lets us drop a bunch of other `detail::` qualifications, so isn't
actually a bad thing).

This updates the `py::init` constructors to only use brace
initialization for aggregate initiailization if there is no constructor
with the given arguments.

This, in particular, fixes the regression in #1247 where the presence of
a `std::initializer_list<T>` constructor started being invoked for
constructor invocations in 2.2 even when there was a specific
constructor of the desired type.

The added test case demonstrates: without this change, it fails to
compile because the `.def(py::init<std::vector<int>>())` constructor
tries to invoke the `T(std::initializer_list<std::vector<int>>)`
constructor rather than the `T(std::vector<int>)` constructor.

By only using `new T{...}`-style construction when a `T(...)`
constructor doesn't exist, we should bypass this by while still allowing
`py::init<...>` to be used for aggregate type initialization (since such
types, by definition, don't have a user-declared constructor).

This fixes #1251 (patient vector grows without bounds) for the 2.2.2
branch by checking that the vector doesn't already have the given
patient.

This is a little less elegant than the same fix for `master` (which
changes the patients `vector` to an `unordered_set`), but that requires
an internals layout change, which this approach avoids.

* Fix segfault when reloading interpreter with external modules

When embedding the interpreter and loading external modules in that
embedded interpreter, the external module correctly shares its
internals_ptr with the one in the embedded interpreter.  When the
interpreter is shut down, however, only the `internals_ptr` local to
the embedded code is actually reset to nullptr: the external module
remains set.

The result is that loading an external pybind11 module, letting the
interpreter go through a finalize/initialize, then attempting to use
something in the external module fails because this external module is
still trying to use the old (destroyed) internals.  This causes
undefined behaviour (typically a segfault).

This commit fixes it by adding a level of indirection in the internals
path, converting the local internals variable to `internals **` instead
of `internals *`.  With this change, we can detect a stale internals
pointer and reload the internals pointer (either from a capsule or by
creating a new internals instance).

(No issue number: this was reported on gitter by @henryiii and @aoloe).

Fix return from `std::map` bindings to `__delitem__`: we should be returning `void`, not an iterator.

Also adds a test for map item deletion.

Found via `codespell`

The anonymous struct nested in a union triggers a -Wnested-anon-type
warning ("anonymous types declared in an anonymous union are an
extension") under clang (#1204).  This names the struct and defines it
out of the definition of `instance` to get around to warning (and makes
the code slightly simpler).

- UPDATEIFCOPY is deprecated, replaced with similar (but not identical)
  WRITEBACKIFCOPY; trying to access the flag causes a deprecation
  warning under numpy 1.14, so just check the new flag there.
- Numpy `repr` formatting of floats changed in 1.14.0 to `[1., 2., 3.]`
  instead of the pre-1.14 `[ 1.,  2.,  3.]`.  Updated the tests to
  check for equality with the `repr(...)` value rather than the
  hard-coded (and now version-dependent) string representation.

When using the mixed position + vararg path, pybind over inc_ref's
the vararg positions. Printing the ref_count() of `item` before
and after this change you see:

Before change:

```
refcount of item before assign 3
refcount of item after assign 5
```

After change
```
refcount of item before assign 3
refcount of item after assign 4
```

The `py::args` or `py::kwargs` arguments aren't properly referenced
when added to the function_call arguments list: their reference counts
drop to zero if the first (non-converting) function call fails, which
means they might be cleaned up before the second pass call runs.

This commit adds a couple of extra `object`s to the `function_call`
where we can stash a reference to them when needed to tie their
lifetime to the function_call object's lifetime.

(Credit to YannickJadoul for catching and proposing a fix in #1223).

In the latest MSVC in C++17 mode including Eigen causes warnings:

    warning C4996: 'std::unary_negate<_Fn>': warning STL4008: std::not1(),
    std::not2(), std::unary_negate, and std::binary_negate are deprecated in
    C++17. They are superseded by std::not_fn(). You can define
    _SILENCE_CXX17_NEGATORS_DEPRECATION_WARNING or
    _SILENCE_ALL_CXX17_DEPRECATION_WARNINGS to acknowledge that you have
    received this warning.

This disables 4996 for the Eigen includes.

Catch generates a similar warning for std::uncaught_exception, so
disable the warning there, too.

In both cases this is temporary; we can (and should) remove the warnings
disabling once new upstream versions of Eigen and Catch are available
that address the warning. (The Catch one, in particular, looks to be
fixed in upstream master, so will probably be fixed in the next (2.0.2)
release).