fix: include PYTHON_IS_DEBUG

fixes #2191

If the default argument value is a class, and not an instance of a
class, `a.value.attr("__repr__")` raises a `ValueError`. Switching to
`repr(a.value)` makes this use case work.

Fixes #2028

Adds requirements file too.

Fix https://github.com/pybind/pybind11/issues/2318

Tested with 2.7.18rc1, built with Py_UNICODE_SIZE 4.
Change also tested with Python 3.8.

- look for windows python lib when using mingw & msys
  - if not found, then look for system python lib as before

* Fix undefined memoryview format

* Add missing <algorithm> header

* Add workaround for py27 array compatibility

* Workaround py27 memoryview behavior

* Fix memoryview constructor from buffer_info

* Workaround PyMemoryView_FromMemory availability in py27

* Fix up memoryview tests

* Update memoryview test from buffer to check signedness

* Use static factory method to create memoryview

* Remove ndim arg from memoryview::frombuffer and add tests

* Allow ndim=0 memoryview and documentation fixup

* Use void* to align to frombuffer method signature

* Add const variants of frombuffer and frommemory

* Add memory view section in doc

* Fix docs

* Add test for null buffer

* Workaround py27 nullptr behavior in test

* Rename frombuffer to from_buffer