The new FindPython-based variant of the CMake scripts caches information
about the chosen Python version that can become stale. For example,
suppose I configure a simple pybind11-based project as follows

```
cmake -S . -B build -GNinja -DPython_ROOT=<path to python 3.8>
```

which will generate `my_extension.cpython-38-x86_64-linux-gnu.so`.
A subsequent change to the python version like

```
cmake -S . -B build -GNinja -DPython_ROOT=<path to python 3.9>
```

does not update all necessary build system information. In particular,
the compiled file is still called
`my_extension.cpython-38-x86_64-linux-gnu.so`.

This commit fixes the problem by detecting changes in
`Python_EXECUTABLE` and re-running Python as needed.

Note that the previous way of detecting Python does not seem to be
affected, it always specifies the right suffix.