* fix: PyCapsule_GetDestructor is allowed to return a nullptr destructor

Previously, this code would error out if the destructor happened to be
a nullptr. This is incorrect. nullptrs are allowed for capsule
destructors.

"It is legal for a capsule to have a NULL destructor. This makes a
NULL return code somewhat ambiguous; use PyCapsule_IsValid() or
PyErr_Occurred() to disambiguate."

See:

https://docs.python.org/3/c-api/capsule.html#c.PyCapsule_GetDestructor

I noticed this while working on a type caster related to #3858 DLPack
happens to allow the destructor not to be defined on a capsule, and I
encountered such a case. See:

https://github.com/dmlc/dlpack/blob/e2bdd3bee8cb6501558042633fa59144cc8b7f5f/include/dlpack/dlpack.h#L219

* Add test for the fix.

* Update tests/test_pytypes.cpp

I tried this locally and it works!
I never knew that there are cases where `reinterpret_cast` does not work but `static_cast` does. Let's see if all compilers are happy with this.

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