* Added ternary support with descr args

Current the `_<bool>(a, b)` ternary support only works for `char[]` `a`
and `b`; this commit allows it to work for `descr` `a` and `b` arguments
as well.

* Add support for std::valarray to stl.h

This abstracts the std::array into a `array_caster` which can then be
used with either std::array or std::valarray, the main difference being
that std::valarray is resizable.  (It also lets the array_caster be
potentially used for other std::array-like interfaces, much as the
list_caster and map_caster currently provide).

* Small stl.h cleanups

- Remove redundant `type` typedefs
- make internal list_caster methods private