* fix: allow -Wpedantic again

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* tests: ignore pedantic warning for PYBIND11_DECLARE_HOLDER_TYPE

Signed-off-by: Henry Schreiner <henryschreineriii@gmail.com>

* tests: try just turning off pedantic for one file

Signed-off-by: Henry Schreiner <henryschreineriii@gmail.com>

* tests: only run pedantic in C++20 mode

Signed-off-by: Henry Schreiner <henryschreineriii@gmail.com>

* Update tests/local_bindings.h

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Signed-off-by: Henry Schreiner <henryschreineriii@gmail.com>